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Refleksje z Targów Książki w Gdańsku: Rozmowy, które zostają

wrzesień 29, 2025 Brak komentarzy

From the 11th to the 14th of September, I had the joy of joining the Gdańsk Book Fair, a vibrant celebration of stories, authors, and ideas. The fair was full of energy and curiosity. There were book stands for every taste: psychology, fantasy, children’s literature, history, and culture. I knew I had to set a purchase limit before walking in: one book per child, and one for myself. Let’s just say… it was not easy to stick to. But more than the books I brought home, what stayed with me were the conversations. Connection Between Authors At the Graphito stand, I had the pleasure of co-creating a space with other brilliant Polish women authors. Each of us brought something different, a unique voice, a different theme, and yet there was a deep, unspoken connection between us. Our conversations were open, thoughtful, and even vulnerable at times. We spoke not just about our books, but about the emotional process behind writing and publishing. It reminded me that authorship isn’t just about having something to say, it’s about choosing to say it with honesty. Meaningful Encounters Some of the most touching moments came from spontaneous chats with people who stopped by the stand. Many were drawn to the Masala@Work cover — its colors, its title — even if they had no previous connection to Indian culture. And still, we ended up speaking about culture: Polish culture, hybrid identity, global values, and everyday differences. One woman in particular left a mark. She teaches Polish to adult learners, many of them Indian expats living in Poland. She shared stories of warmth, openness, and mutual discovery that happen in her classroom. It was a beautiful reminder of how language and culture are never just academic; they’re deeply human. Polish Culture in Business Some of our discussions raised bold, honest questions. One of them was:“Are Polish people culturally difficult to work with?” The idea wasn’t to stereotype or criticize, but to invite reflection. Do we realize how our norms, communication styles, and assumptions might feel confusing or rigid to others? Can we look at our own culture with the same curiosity we bring to others? The idea wasn’t to stereotype or criticize, but to invite reflection. Do we realize how our norms, communication styles, and assumptions might feel confusing or rigid to others? Can we look at our own culture with the same curiosity we bring to others? That question stayed with me: What do you think? Travel and Openness Another recurring theme was travel. Does it always broaden your mind? The answer, we agreed, is: it depends. Travel can expose you to differences, but it doesn’t guarantee openness. Sometimes it reinforces what you already believe. Sometimes it deepens stereotypes instead of breaking them. Openness is not about where you go, but how willing you are to see, listen, and let something shift inside you. Globalization and Cultural Identity Some visitors brought up the idea that “we’re all becoming one global business culture.” Cultural differences are fading, especially in professional settings. I see it differently. Yes, there are shared tools, technologies, and processes. But values? Expectations? Approaches to leadership, trust, or conflict? Those still vary — deeply. Globalization doesn’t erase culture. It just means we need better tools to navigate it. Women in Leadership Throughout the fair, I kept returning to a quiet but powerful thought: how meaningful it is to see so many women leading as authors, thinkers, and businesswomen. There is something undeniably strong about showing up in spaces like these. Publishing a book, telling your story, claiming your place at the table. Sometimes, that alone is a form of leadership. Final Thoughts The Gdańsk Book Fair was more than a literary event. It was a space of cultural exchange, emotional generosity, and critical thinking. And it left me with new questions to carry forward:  • What makes a culture “difficult”, and who gets to decide?  • Can travel make us more closed instead of open? • Is globalization flattening differences, or simply demanding more nuance? If any of these reflections resonate, I’d love to hear your thoughts. Let’s keep the conversation going. PS — A little bonus:During the fair, we made a limited number of copies of Masala@Work available in English!! The official English-language launch is still on the horizon, but if you’re curious… don’t miss your chance to get it when the time comes. Stay tuned — it’s closer than you think.  😉

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Cicha praca życia między kulturami

sierpień 25, 2025 Jeden komentarz

We often talk about the beauty of living across cultures — the broadened perspectives, the meaningful connections, the once-in-a-lifetime experiences. And all of that is true. But there’s another side to it that doesn’t often make it into pictures or stories. Living between cultures can also be quietly exhausting. Beyond adaptation I spent a few years in Scotland. One thing that confused me endlessly in Aberdeen was the way people said, “You alright?” when passing you in the corridor or at the start of a conversation. The first time someone asked me, I started explaining – “Yes, just a bit tired, didn’t sleep well…” – and they looked surprised. I didn’t realise it was just another way of saying “hello.” Over time, I learned that these small rituals carry emotional codes of their own. That “you alright?” wasn’t a question – it was a way of gently opening the door to connection. I still sometimes over-answer it. But I also smile now when I hear it – a tiny reminder of how complex and fascinating communication can be. Adapting to a different culture isn’t just about learning how people greet each other or what’s considered polite. It’s about attuning yourself to a different emotional code — often one that’s unspoken. It takes: Openness, to notice how people speak and connect. Vulnerability, to express yourself in new ways — linguistically, emotionally, even physically. Courage, to engage with difference — whether that’s being seen as different, or facing a culture that feels deeply unfamiliar. This process is often invisible. But it’s constant. In-between worlds Sometimes, living across cultures means translating your thoughts more than once before speaking.Sometimes, it’s wondering how much of your own cultural heritage to carry with you — and how much space to leave for what’s new. I remember one evening at a pub in Aberdeen, sitting with a group of Scottish classmates. We were all chatting, laughing – but I noticed something: they rarely talked about themselves. Everything was wrapped in humour or deflection. I had grown up with a different kind of openness, where emotions could be named more directly. That night, I shared something a bit personal – nothing dramatic, just a little window into how I was feeling. The conversation went quiet. Not unkind – just… uncertain. Only later did I realise I had crossed an invisible line that evening. It wasn’t about what I said – but how early I said it. There’s a dance to connection in every culture. That night, I learned one of the steps. Living in between often means feeling a bit like an outsider. And that’s hard to explain to people who haven’t experienced it. But here’s the thing: Feeling “in between” isn’t a weakness.It’s a reflection of everything you’re holding, and how deeply you’re navigating. What you gain There’s a quiet kind of power that comes from cross-cultural living.It can make you more perceptive. More grounded. More attuned to nuance. It’s not always easy — but it’s incredibly rewarding. Because when you live between cultures, you start to notice what connects people. You understand multiple realities. And you gain the ability to choose what you carry forward — and what you let go. That’s not just cultural intelligence.That’s human wisdom. Let’s keep the conversation going If this resonates with you, I’d love to hear your story.Let’s keep talking — about the joys and the challenges of life across cultures.

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Culture PRO™ — jak przenieść swój zespół na wyższy poziom

lipiec 31, 2025 Brak komentarzy

Culture PRO™ is an original approach designed to help professionals build long-lasting, fulfilling, and effective intercultural relationships.Its goal is to develop cultural competence and confidence in global environments.I’m proud to say it isn’t a checklist. It’s a practice. And it sits at the heart of every training, session, and conversation I lead. What is Culture PRO™? Culture PRO™ is my signature method for working across cultures with greater impact and humanity.It’s built on three essential pillars: Perception. Respect. Openness. Each one stands on its own, but together, they form a powerful, practical foundation for real intercultural leadership.Not the kind that avoids difference, but the kind that engages with it fully, with skill and presence. Perception: See the Whole Picture In intercultural work, what we perceive is only the surface:a tone of voice, a delayed response, a surprising reaction in a meeting.Beneath that surface are values, norms, and lived experiences; layers that shape every interaction. Culture PRO™ starts here: with awareness. Beginning with your cultural lens. When we pause to examine what we bring into a situation, our assumptions, habits, and expectations, we begin to notice patterns.We stop labeling things as “weird” or “wrong” and start recognizing them as different responses to different realities. Respect: Engage with Intention Not all tension in intercultural collaboration is avoidable. And that’s okay.The key is learning to respond with intention, not just instinct. In the Culture PRO™ method, respect means choosing curiosity over judgment.It’s not about being overly agreeable or walking on eggshells.It’s about showing up fully, especially when things feel uncomfortable. This pillar gives you tools to pause and reflect.To ask: What else could be going on here?And to respond in ways that preserve connection while honoring difference. You move from reactive to strategic.From polite to truly present. Openness: Turn Insight into Action Understanding is not the finish line — it’s the starting point. To build strong intercultural relationships, we need to act on that understanding. Openness means staying flexible, and co-creating new ways of working, without losing your core values.It’s about adapting where it matters, expressing yourself in ways that resonate, and listening in ways that invite trust. This is also where we develop practical, culturally relevant DOs and DON’Ts — not as rigid rules, but as shared agreements grounded in real dialogue and mutual respect. In a way, this pillar ties the whole method together: > Perception gives you awareness. > Respect builds trust. > Openness helps you act with purpose. What Makes This Method Different? Most intercultural trainings focus on surface-level facts:What’s appropriate in one culture versus another. That kind of knowledge can be useful, but on its own, it’s not enough. Culture PRO™ goes deeper.It doesn’t teach you what to think about different cultures.It teaches you how to notice patterns, relate across them, and lead with integrity. It’s not one-size-fits-all.It’s human-centered.It adapts to your team, your challenges, and your goals. And above all, it’s rooted in relationship.Because across cultures, it’s not just what you know that matters. It’s how you connect. The Bottom Line Culture PRO™ isn’t magic.It won’t make cultural differences disappear, and that’s not the point. The point is to approach those differences with clarity, skill, and humanity. Because when you do, something powerful happens:You stop seeing culture as an obstacle.You start seeing it as a resource. And from there, you build: > Better conversations. > Better teams. > Better work. Curious to experience the Culture PRO™ method in action?I invite you to explore my trainings, workshops, and sessions. Let’s make cultural difference your greatest professional advantage.

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Dopamina i efektywność: Jak naprawdę działa motywacja (i jak z nią pracować)

czerwiec 20, 2025 Brak komentarzy

By Klaudia Fryc-Mallick  We often think of productivity as a matter of discipline. But beneath that… There’s chemistry.  In our pursuit of efficiency, we often rely on systems: task managers, color-coded calendars, productivity hacks. But behind all these strategies, there’s one powerful driver quietly shaping our behavior: dopamine.  Far from being the “pleasure chemical,” dopamine is the neurotransmitter of motivation, focus, and goal-directed action. It’s what gives us that little mental push to send the email we’ve been postponing, tick off a task, or even just start. Efficiency starts in the brain Dopamine is released when we anticipate a reward, not just when we receive it. This is why planning a vacation can feel more exciting than actually being on one, or why visualizing a completed project can energize us to begin.  If your days feel scattered or you’re stuck in “planning mode” without action, it’s not always a mindset issue. Often, it’s your brain telling you that the reward isn’t clear enough (or meaningful enough) to trigger the dopamine response that fuels action. Easy dopamine vs. sustainable motivation In a world of notifications, dopamine has become dangerously easy to access. Social media, short videos, and algorithm-driven content offer quick dopamine hits with minimal effort. The problem? This overstimulation can dull our sensitivity to dopamine over time. What used to feel motivating (like completing a small task or receiving thoughtful feedback) starts to feel… flat. It’s not about quitting tech, but being more intentional with your attention, protecting your brain’s natural motivation cycles, and helping bring focus back to what truly matters.  Working with your dopamine Here are a few brain-friendly ways to enhance your focus and productivity without relying on shortcuts:  Break big goals into small wins: Dopamine loves progress. Checking off smaller milestones keeps the reward loop active.  Protect your attention: Limit multitasking and avoid reward-saturated loops like endless scrolling.  Prioritize real rest: Dopamine receptors are replenished during sleep. Burnout is not efficient.  Feed your brain: Foods rich in tyrosine (like eggs, legumes, fish) support healthy dopamine production.  Introduce mindful novelty: New challenges or skills (within reason) activate dopamine circuits more sustainably than mindless stimulation.   A new way of thinking about productivity  If you often feel that staying focused or following through requires pushing against yourself, maybe it’s time to rethink the narrative. Efficiency isn’t just a matter of discipline or external systems. It’s about creating the right internal conditions so your brain wants to act.  Understanding dopamine is a powerful first step.  Let your productivity be brain-informed and human-centered.  😉 

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3 rzeczy, które ludzie często źle rozumieją o indyjskiej kulturze pracy

czerwiec 12, 2025 Brak komentarzy

by Klaudia Fryc-Mallick When collaborating across cultures, misunderstandings aren’t just possible — they’re inevitable. But some of them are predictable, and with the right insight, preventable. Indian workplace culture is rich, dynamic, and often misunderstood, especially by professionals coming from more individualistic or low-context cultures. Here are three common misconceptions — and what to understand instead. 1. “They’re not being clear.”The misunderstanding:Many Western professionals perceive Indian colleagues as vague or evasive, especially when it comes to saying “no,” expressing concerns, or offering feedback. The reality:In many Indian professional settings, communication is context-rich and relational. Directness can be seen as impolite or confrontational. Rather than saying “no” outright, colleagues might say “we’ll try,” or “let’s see,” especially if the request comes from someone in a position of authority. What to do:Learn to read between the lines — and create space for clarity. Instead of yes/no questions, ask open-ended ones. Build trust first. Clarity often follows connection. 2. “They don’t care about deadlines.”The misunderstanding:Missed deadlines or last-minute changes may be interpreted as a lack of professionalism or accountability. The reality:Indian work environments often emphasize flexibility and responsiveness over rigid scheduling. Many teams juggle complex hierarchies, shared responsibilities, and evolving priorities. The commitment is real, but the timeline may be fluid. What to do:Don’t assume lack of care. Instead, co-create timelines, confirm expectations regularly, and allow for check-ins. When possible, factor in buffer time, and clarify what’s truly non-negotiable. 3. “They’re uncomfortable with feedback.”The misunderstanding:European or North American colleagues may struggle with how to give or receive feedback with Indian teams. There’s a fear of offending — or of not being honest enough. The reality:Feedback is deeply relational in Indian culture. It’s not just about what you say, but how — and when — you say it. Negative feedback, especially in group settings or over email, can risk shame or loss of face. But when approached with care, it’s welcomed and respected. What to do:Follow the #HPSP rule: Hard on the Problem, Soft on the Person. Be clear and specific about the issue, and gentle and respectful in tone. One-on-one settings work best. And don’t forget to offer reinforcing feedback too — praise goes a long way. Understanding workplace culture isn’t about mastering a list of dos and don’ts — it’s about noticing your assumptions, staying curious, and practicing empathy. If you’re navigating collaboration with Indian teams — or just want to strengthen your cultural intelligence — download the Masala@Work Preview. It’s full of real-world examples and actionable insights to help you connect more meaningfully across borders.  Get your copy here

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